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What has a relationship work? Why do some relationships last and others don’t?
If you’re anything like me, you’ve pondered these questions before. Sometimes we think about it when we are starting a new relationship and often, we think about it acutely when a relationship...
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Hello and welcome. My name is Danica Lani. I'm known as the King Coach and you're listening to the Kings of Joy podcast. I am joined today with an incredible performer who I cannot wait to introduce you to... Casual Harry all the way from Cape Town, South Africa. Welcome Casual,...
Why are some people able to shoot off straight after Kings of Joy Gold Stars and go solo while others are not sure what to do next or even where to start?
I’m Danica Lani, the King Coach and I’ve proudly mentored 89 first-time Drag Kings through Kings of Joy since December 2020.
I...
Growing up in this world can be challenging. Not only do we inherit a binary definition of gender, but the binary ‘this or that’ or ‘two opposites’ approach can inhabit other areas of life as well. One of them is relationships.
The model of relationship that I inherited
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Hey there friend. I’ve got some electrifying news that's about to light up your world. Get ready to unleash your inner King because the one and only Casual Harry, the Cape Town-based drag king and boylesque sensation, is here to take you on a journey like no other.
Meet Casual...
What makes sex tantric? Can we just show up and do the deed and it’s done? How do we incorporate connection and intimacy into our busy lives anyway?
There are three foundational pillars that must be present for sex to transform from mere mechanics to feeling deeply connected and ultimately,...
[L-R Cherry Packer, A Bang, Boy Pussy, Jackson Apples]
In a one-horse town somewhere west of Orange, a mini oasis sprung up from the dusty ground. A cherry farm. Isolated from the nearest town, you can only drive there and once you stopped, you stayed.
Picking cherries is a sport for the...
Have you ever felt stuck in your body, like you want to express yourself but you can’t seem to move? Sometimes we can feel paralysed, trapped in our own physical vessels. Or, we develop habits of not moving our bodies.
Think of movement as a language. When we are in the womb, we begin to...
[From top L-R: Bobs Bulges, Max Mews the Ultimate Cat Daddy, Martin Van Tasmal, Randy Rootrat, Dario di Bello, Chase Cocks, Hank, Dumblewhore, Cyber Prince]
Welcome to the Kings of Joy community, a safe and empowering space where humans of all genders come together to explore the captivating...
In the realm of intimate relationships, the journey isn't always smooth sailing. For queer people, the challenges of reopening yourself after becoming shutdown can be particularly nuanced and sensitive. This article delves into the intricacies of rediscovering intimacy, drawing from the wisdom of...
[Mario Maverick]
Stepping into the enchanting world of Drag King performance is an empowering journey of self-expression and celebration. As first-time Drag Kings, you have the incredible opportunity to craft an identity that will dazzle audiences and leave a lasting impact. When it comes to...
[Maggot Banks, Goondiwindi Jones, Dario di Bello, Dustin le Rugrat, ShaMan]
Embracing your Drag King persona is an exhilarating journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and creative expression. Your Drag King name is the key to unlocking your royal identity and stepping into the spotlight with...
