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In times of humanitarian crisis and in the face of war, one can feel utterly helpless. Itâs easy to spiral down.
Having been an activist for the majority of my life (close to 40 years), starting with reading David Suzuki at age 8 and being that person i...
In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's easy for us to find ourselves feeling disconnected, especially when navigating challenges like lesbian bed death. But what if I told you that there's a way to foster a deeper connection without the pressure of traditional sexual expectations? That's wh...
Breakups â they're like that stubborn bandaid you've had on for way too long. Taking it off slowly can be excruciating, like feeling every tiny hair being plucked from your skin. The quick rip approach still hurts, but it gets done and the pain is short-term and disappears sooner. Sometimes we think...
In the world of love and partnerships, promises are like the seeds we plant for our shared future. They hold the potential to shape the course of our journey together. But, as we all know, promises are delicate and need careful tending, especially in queer relationships where the dynamics might d...
Itâs been a while now since you first got together and somewhere along the line, the question comes up - is this a relationship? We have cute ways of saying this to each other. âAre we girlfriends?â Or one of you gets brave and pops the question, âWill you be my girlfriend?â Other times we speak wi...
What has a relationship work? Why do some relationships last and others donât?
If youâre anything like me, youâve pondered these questions before. Sometimes we think about it when we are starting a new relationship and often, we think about it acutely when a relationship ends - What went wrong in ...
Growing up in this world can be challenging. Not only do we inherit a binary definition of gender, but the binary âthis or thatâ or âtwo oppositesâ approach can inhabit other areas of life as well. One of them is relationships.
The model of relationship that I inherited
Playing Barbies with my sis...
What makes sex tantric? Can we just show up and do the deed and itâs done? How do we incorporate connection and intimacy into our busy lives anyway?
There are three foundational pillars that must be present for sex to transform from mere mechanics to feeling deeply connected and ultimately, into a ...
Have you ever felt stuck in your body, like you want to express yourself but you canât seem to move? Sometimes we can feel paralysed, trapped in our own physical vessels. Or, we develop habits of not moving our bodies.
Think of movement as a language. When we are in the womb, we begin to move. When...
In the realm of intimate relationships, the journey isn't always smooth sailing. For queer people, the challenges of reopening yourself after becoming shutdown can be particularly nuanced and sensitive. This article delves into the intricacies of rediscovering intimacy, drawing from the wisdom of ta...
In the deep and diverse tapestry of human existence, the journey to embrace one's authentic self can be a profound and transformative experience. For queer people, this path can be particularly powerful, as it intertwines gender, sexuality, and the desire to experience being truly connected.
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In the pursuit of living our best lives, shedding the weight of shame can be a transformative and empowering journey. For queer people, especially those navigating queer/lesbian bed death, releasing shame around sexuality and identity is a vital step towards embracing true liberation. In this articl...
