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Reigniting the Flame: Unveiling the Magic of Tantra to Counter Queer/Lesbian Bed queer relating Jul 15, 2023

Today, let's delve into a topic that resonates with many long-term queer partnerships: queer/lesbian bed death. Yes, it's a phenomenon that can cast a shadow over the intimate connection we crave. But it doesnā€™t have to be this way. 

Enter tantra, a transformative practice that offers a sacred s...

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A Crush: What is it Good For? queer relating Jun 30, 2023

Your eyes meet across the room. They give you a little nod of acknowledgment. You check behind you. Was that to me? Your heart flutters and you go weak at the kneesā€¦

Having a crush. Someone you fancy. There are many ways to describe that giddy feeling of initial attraction to someone. Sometimes ...

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Real Talk: Withholding Sex queer relating Jun 22, 2023

Important note:

The conversation that follows must be had and understood within a context of consent. Each of us has the right to give or withdraw consent at ANY time under ANY circumstances. You can withdraw consent at any anytime without reason AND for any reason. Saying no is a human right. One ...

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Self-Cultivation for Queer Bodies queer relating Jun 02, 2023

Every moment you invest in yourself is filling your cup. When you pour goodness and kindness into yourself you are juicing up your soul. Itā€™s like priming the soil to receive all of the universeā€™s abundance that is ready and waiting for you.

To cultivate the self is to grow, to improve and to de...

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Divine Androgyny & the Power of Integration queer relating May 26, 2023

Androgyny is the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics into an ambiguous form. And yet some people define androgyny as the state of being neither specifically feminine or masculine. So which is it? 

One of the things I love about androgyny is that it leaves people with ambiguity....

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Nothing But Love: Embracing Your Queer Feminine Energy queer relating May 12, 2023

There has been so much written about feminine energy by straight women. You could spend a whole lifetime wading through the thinking, books and art that have been produced. I want to talk about divine feminine energy within a queer context.

As with all gender energies, the gender you were assign...

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How to cultivate masculine energy performance queer relating May 06, 2023

Gender only exists in language. And itā€™s made up by humans.

Gender refers to the social and cultural roles, attitudes, behaviors, and expectations associated with being a ā€˜manā€™ or a ā€˜womanā€™.  It is a social construct and can vary across different cultures and contexts. 

Popular language evolves ov...

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Feeling Stressed and Out of Balance? It Might Be Your Gender Identity queer relating Apr 21, 2023

Iā€™m standing in the kitchen, a dropped plate on the floor, staring at my hand. Thereā€™s quite a cut on my palm and itā€™s starting to bleed. This is my wake-up call.

Whenever I injure myself, I take it as a reminder that Iā€™m not present. And that I need to get present pronto. On a bigger level, the...

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The Power of Boundaries: Why Saying "No" Can Feel So Good queer relating Apr 06, 2023

 Hey there, breathtaking human! Today, we're going to talk about something that's close to my heart ā€“ integrity and sex. As part of the LGBTQIA+ community, we know that sex can be complicated, but it's essential to approach it with honesty, respect, and love. So, let's dive in!

Have you ever don...

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Staying sane in the face of public hate queer relating Mar 23, 2023

First comes the shock - especially when it's unexpected. You're scrolling along on socials and boom - there's a post that shows you firsthand the nazi salute made by a tiny group of self-proclaimed neo-nazis holding a hateful sign aimed at people who are trans. No, not in America. Here in Austral...

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Queer self-care after Sydney WorldPride drag king culture queer relating Mar 18, 2023

Was anyone else completely exhausted by Fair Day with WorldPride? In Sydney we were hosting the Sydney WorldPride event. Normally you have Mardi Gras and that's a great festival. This year we had WorldPride, which was like Mardi Gras on steroids. It was epic. There were events, crossing over left...

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The secret sauce to queer tantra queer relating Mar 11, 2023

What is it that takes everyday intimacy from everyday to tantric? There is one fundamental and integral secret ingredient...

So what is reverence?

Reverence is a feeling or attitude of deep respect, awe, and admiration towards something or someone believed to be sacred, holy, or deserving of ad...

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