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Today, let's delve into a topic that resonates with many long-term queer partnerships: queer/lesbian bed death. Yes, it's a phenomenon that can cast a shadow over the intimate connection we crave. But it doesnāt have to be this way.
Enter tantra, a transformative practice that offers a sacred s...
Your eyes meet across the room. They give you a little nod of acknowledgment. You check behind you. Was that to me? Your heart flutters and you go weak at the kneesā¦
Having a crush. Someone you fancy. There are many ways to describe that giddy feeling of initial attraction to someone. Sometimes ...
Important note:
The conversation that follows must be had and understood within a context of consent. Each of us has the right to give or withdraw consent at ANY time under ANY circumstances. You can withdraw consent at any anytime without reason AND for any reason. Saying no is a human right. One ...
Every moment you invest in yourself is filling your cup. When you pour goodness and kindness into yourself you are juicing up your soul. Itās like priming the soil to receive all of the universeās abundance that is ready and waiting for you.
To cultivate the self is to grow, to improve and to de...
Androgyny is the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics into an ambiguous form. And yet some people define androgyny as the state of being neither specifically feminine or masculine. So which is it?
One of the things I love about androgyny is that it leaves people with ambiguity....
There has been so much written about feminine energy by straight women. You could spend a whole lifetime wading through the thinking, books and art that have been produced. I want to talk about divine feminine energy within a queer context.
As with all gender energies, the gender you were assign...
Gender only exists in language. And itās made up by humans.
Gender refers to the social and cultural roles, attitudes, behaviors, and expectations associated with being a āmanā or a āwomanā. It is a social construct and can vary across different cultures and contexts.
Popular language evolves ov...
Iām standing in the kitchen, a dropped plate on the floor, staring at my hand. Thereās quite a cut on my palm and itās starting to bleed. This is my wake-up call.
Whenever I injure myself, I take it as a reminder that Iām not present. And that I need to get present pronto. On a bigger level, the...
Hey there, breathtaking human! Today, we're going to talk about something that's close to my heart ā integrity and sex. As part of the LGBTQIA+ community, we know that sex can be complicated, but it's essential to approach it with honesty, respect, and love. So, let's dive in!
Have you ever don...
First comes the shock - especially when it's unexpected. You're scrolling along on socials and boom - there's a post that shows you firsthand the nazi salute made by a tiny group of self-proclaimed neo-nazis holding a hateful sign aimed at people who are trans. No, not in America. Here in Austral...
Was anyone else completely exhausted by Fair Day with WorldPride? In Sydney we were hosting the Sydney WorldPride event. Normally you have Mardi Gras and that's a great festival. This year we had WorldPride, which was like Mardi Gras on steroids. It was epic. There were events, crossing over left...
What is it that takes everyday intimacy from everyday to tantric? There is one fundamental and integral secret ingredient...
So what is reverence?
Reverence is a feeling or attitude of deep respect, awe, and admiration towards something or someone believed to be sacred, holy, or deserving of ad...